Once a man is living with a woman his hair belongs to her.
She will give her opinion about length, haircut, shampoo, conditioner, how often you have to wash and even the hair stylist. Not really opinions, orders.
A man, even the most attentive one, hardly realizes when a woman changes her hairstyle or has a haircut. It´s not his cup of tea.
Maybe telling my story I can warn other men to ask a woman before doing anything with their own hair. This happened in Atlantida, during a summer in the 80’s, when it was fashionable to have blond hair, like surfers had. Teenagers and young adults used to lighten their hair as if it were sunkissed. I wanted to join this trend. A pharmacist gently explained I could have this effect applying hydrogen peroxide on the hair, or even better a product called Blondor, and taking some sun.